At first, I thought the challenge was ADHD. My husband was officially diagnosed six years into our relationship, after years of me gently urging him to seek an assessment. But over time, I discovered it wasn’t just ADHD—it was also dyslexia. That shift changed everything.

This site includes terms from both worlds, because that’s the reality I’ve lived. And maybe it’s the one you’re living too—messy, layered, misunderstood. I write about both not because I’m an expert, but because I needed words for what we were going through. And I couldn’t find them. So I made them.